"‘Angst: often confused with anxiety, is a transcendent emotion in that it combines the unbearable anguish of life with the hopes of overcoming this seemingly impossible situation. Without the important element of hope, then the emotion is anxiety, not angst.’"
-

I’m George, mwm, 52 (George Everyman)

I don’t know if I agree with this, but I find it thought provoking.

(Source: teasfandomsandbooks)

c4bl3fl4m3:

chickgonebad:

buckinglovespit:

notyourordinarytherapist:

notsocrazyafterall:

I found this on ifunny, and you know what? This douchebag needs to be known. Noone should ever be allowed to make someone hurt so badly. Lets signal boost this.

I must not break another key board.
I Must Not Break Another Keyboard.
I MUST NOT BREAK ANOTHER KEYBOARD.
I MUST NOT BREAK ANOTHER KEYBOARD.
I MUST NOT BREAK ANOTHER KEYBOARD.

I DFKJDKJEKFVNBR;GRN;OBSHBGLY

FUCK.

He deserves to be set on fire

Garrett, someday you will need sympathy. I hope you receive exactly what you deserve.

Nope, getting people back isn’t ok. Sorry.

Garrett, I hope you can understand why what you did was so awful and horrible. I hope you can heal whatever it is inside of you that drove you to do this. You’re obviously going through things yourself. I hope you can get some help, and gain some compassion and understanding. And I hope it comes soon, and I hope you apologize and try to help this poor girl as much as possible (if she is ok with ever being contacted by you again.)

I can do this sometimes. And sometimes it’s the necessity to do this that leads to my radically different life. It’s DEEPLY hard to hold onto dignity and self confidence and self worth when living that life. But I try.

I can do this sometimes. And sometimes it’s the necessity to do this that leads to my radically different life. It’s DEEPLY hard to hold onto dignity and self confidence and self worth when living that life. But I try.

(Source: tigerjayofficial, via jpsailor)

adding my take

http://threedifferentways.tumblr.com/post/96457526753/sometimes-i-do-cripplingly-worry-that-im-doing-it

c4bl3fl4m3:

chickgonebad:

threedifferentways:

Sometimes I do cripplingly worry that I’m doing it all wrong and I’m just deceiving myself with these foolish card games and vainful wishing posing as occult roleplay.

And then I take a phone call that I would not have been able to answer much less have a chipper and civil conversation a mere six…

It doesn’t matter what others think as long as it’s putting you in the right direction. “So with thy all; thou hast no right but to do thy will. Do that, and no other shall say nay.”

Hmm.

I’ve been doing deeply moving religious roleplay with my sweetie lately. He takes on the role of Deity/Goodness Embodied and I am me. It’s very fulfilling, but I feel it really puts a LOT of folks off when I talk about it.

What chickgonebad said really helps and resonates. It really DOES put me in the right direction. So I guess it’s ok.

Huh.

"It doesn’t matter who you used to be; what matters is who you decide to be today. You are not your mistakes. You are not your mishaps. You are not your past. You are not your wounds. You can decide differently today and at every moment. Remember that. You are offered a new opportunity with each breath to think, decide, choose and act differently – in a way that supports you in being all that you are capable of being. You are not less than. You are enough."
- Brittany Josephina (via ruedamour)

(via chickgonebad)

artemisfowlstolemysoul:

Being a nice person is so fun

Waiter messes something up? You can see the relief on their faces when you don’t scream and swear at them about it

Extra tickets at an arcade/prize place? Watch a little kid’s face light up when you give them a bunch of tickets

There are too many assholes in this world. Be a nice person.

(via gettingup-fallingdown)

"I remember that I was once walking with an irreligious young man. We came upon a huge mosque, and, looking at it, he said apathetically, ‘Would not a huge factory been in the best interest of this nation instead of such a building?’ I answered him, ‘Woe unto you! The mosque is a factory for souls. People come here with empty minds and leave with their minds working wonders!’"
-

Shaykh Muhammad Al Ghazali (via tmihijabi)

That’s fucking awesome, and how I feel about many houses of faith and ethical societies and the like. (Actually, one might be able to say this about BDSM clubs/dungeons as well.)

(via anddeathsmiled)

Which of My Blogs Should You Follow?

Hi folks!

I’ve been noticing I’ve been getting a lot of new followers lately. I thought I’d clue you in to all of my different blogs so that you can follow the one(s) you’re most interested in. It might not be this one!

Note that all of my blogs could theoretically contain kink, sex, nudity, and swear words at any given time. (Ok, so it’s EXTREMELY unlikely that the food blog would have anything but swear words, but…) I also do not tag posts for content on any regular basis, so if you’re worried about that sort of thing, you probably should just not follow me.

I mostly reblog things, but sometimes I put up original content. The ones that aren’t my general blog I put more original content up on, but I do have my share of OC on my general blog, mainly because I wrote about things before I created those other blogs, so… If you’re interested in the things I write, I do try to tag all of those #my writings, and when I have something substantial to comment on another post, I try to tag it #adding my take.

C4bl3Fl4m3: my primary/general blog. It’s the catch all one… anything from kink to feederism to geeky things to mental illness to food stuff to spirituality to social justice to transit to just stuff that looks cool. It’s basically all of me. NOTE that some of my other blogs cover some of that stuff, too, but I don’t necessarily x-post stuff from this one to those, or from those to this one. Sometimes I do, and sometimes I don’t, so if you’re interested in the subject, follow both.

ProfanityAndProphecy: I have a passion for activism surrounding the adoption of a set of ethics/morals around interactions within the various social justice communities. This is the blog where I espouse that. There’s a lot of (hopefully, non-preachy!) spirituality, religion, ethical culture, philosophy, ethics, morals, social justice, sex-positive, kink/fetish-positive, and fandom stuff on that blog, esp. posts where one or more of these converge. It also has posts about my own spiritual journey. I’m functionally a spiritual/religious atheist (yes, you read that right), so regardless of where you sit, you hopefully can find something of interest. (Or maybe EVERYONE will be insulted equally! Yay!) If you’re interested in the convergence of Doing Good with our various cultures (SJ, altsex, geek), then this is the blog for you.

HisInSoManyWays: My newest blog! This is the blog I’m chronicling my kink-D/s journey with. I started this because, even though I’ve been in the Scene for 9 years, and been kinky/drawn to power/had fetishes since I was a little kid, I got a boyfriend who is a Dominant, and so there’s a lot more of this stuff actively going on in my life (and in my head) these days. I mainly do this on FetLife, but since I wanted to reblog stuff on Tumblr, often times with my take, and I wanted to have it all in one easy place, I realized I should probably just make a blog for it. I do x-post writings to & from FetLife. This blog includes BDSM, D/s (NOT M/s or O/p), role play (inc. parent-child incest & age play, and Divine/follower role play), and sex. (I usually keep my feedism fetish stuff on my main blog, but if/when they cross over into my relationship, I’ll bring it up here.)

FoodieInterrupted: this is the blog I was doing when I had gallstones and had to follow a low-fat diet for 2 years but still wanted to stay a foodie and eat tasty food. I dropped it ages ago, but if that’s your thing, go for it. (I loved that blog but hardly got any followers.) I actually got the gallstones out in January, so I doubt I’ll start it up again.

HerTheFandom: A blog for Her, the Movie, whose emphasis was on fan creation. I started it up when it was just in select theaters. I dropped it ages ago, but if you’re really into it, let me know, and I’ll let you have the blog.

SpamLoveLetters: I’d love to get people into this. You know how sometimes spam is a love letter? I love the love letters. So I post them w/o the spam links. (If YOU get any spam love letters, feel free to submit them!)

"Develop a healthy relationship with food. If you’re hungry, eat. If you’re full, don’t eat. Eat vegetables to be good to your body, but eat ice cream to be good to your soul.

Take pictures of yourself frequently. Chronicle your life. Selfies are completely underrated. Even if the pictures are unflattering, keep them anyway. There will always be mountains and cities and buildings, but you will never look the same way as you did in that one moment in time.

Your worth does not depend on how desirable someone finds you. Spend less time in front of the mirror and more time with people who make you feel beautiful.

Close doors. Don’t hold onto things that no longer brings you happiness and do not help you grow as a person. It is okay to walk away from toxic relationships. You are not weak for letting go.

Forgive yourself. We all have something in our pasts that we are ashamed of, but they only weigh us down if we allow them to. Make amends with the old you and work every day to become the person that you’ve always wanted to be."
- Tina Tran, Tips to being a happier you  (via exoticwild)

(Source: absentions, via chickgonebad)

thegayteen:

somewhereoverthebarricade:

Before I had tumblr I had no idea there were any sexualities other than heterosexual and homosexual. I never considered gender inequalities still existed.

That doesn’t mean I was purposely trying to discriminate or upset people.

There is a difference between being just ignorant of something and purposefully discriminating.

Give someone a chance to learn and be enlightened before you slam them as rude, horrible people

god bless

(via bearbrat)